20 April 2010

What a world...

There's a lot about the world, which makes me splutter and wonder how mad it's getting. Yesterday, in our school newspaper there was a bit of news on a 53 year old woman from Texas (I think) who 'likes' doing her gardening in her pink thongs and pink gardening gloves. The community reported her, and the Housing Corporation wanted to throw her husband and her out of their apartment unless she wore some clothes while gardening. The case went to court, and unfortunately enough the Housing Corporation lost the case....the husband was reported to have said that he was happy with the fair and sensible decision, which protected his wife's freedom. He was glad that his wife could be comfortable while gardening.

For a week or so, a piece of news that's been doing the rounds is of a student at Boston University who had the appalling indecency to go around grabbing some women by their asses while he went by on his bicycle.
I'll be the first to say that such incidents aren't common on university campuses. There is that creepy 'frat culture' on some college campuses, girls do indeed get raped and by boys they know, date-rape (even if all reported incidents should not be believed) has been taken to all new levels, and there is sexual violence but it's not, excuse me, the ass-grabbing and body-parts pinching sort - not on college campuses at least. So this boy on the bicycle - what he did - is probably uncommon. But people don't know how to respond it seems. Some people have expressed doubt as to whether such incidents as 'innocent' ass grabbing can be termed as sexual misconduct. What is it then? Apparently if the boy was out for some mischievous fun - the whole incident shouldn't be treated too seriously. On the other side of the frame - you have people baying and baying furiously while talking about the 'White man's privilege' (!) and equating the incident to rape and you have them blaming the patriarchal structures and the aspect of male dominance in U.S society, and the responses to such rantings are even more non-pertinent.

Now this bit of news comes up on the news about the middle-east. It seems when odd pieces of news follow one - they really follow one. Egad. What sort of a world is this? One can laugh though, I guess. Laugh a hollow laugh.

And the same world has given us human beings who created this ....this .... this ....this ....and there are other creations that make one silent, stop one's heart, make one gasp or make one cry. There are people indeed who have the same effect. I wonder...I really wonder whether all human beings belong to the same species.

What a world...

3 comments:

Suvro Chatterjee said...

It takes all kinds, they say. But one wonders how sane the Fathers of the American Constitution were when they wrote 'All men are created equal...'

Sayak Shome said...

Without the bad we could have never understood the good. If there wasn't darkness we would have never valued light. If such utter futility of certain nonsensical actions weren't portrayed by a few individuals, maybe we would have never appreciated intellect. In a way, they are all needed.

Shilpi said...

I can't agree with that. Sorry Sayak.
For one thing: there are some people and some actions the world could very well be rid of. Futile actions are one thing - completely inane actions which are severely annoying and/or harmful have no business being around. It's by eliminating what is unnecessary, stupid, and harmful that human beings can hope to progress - progress in the real sense that is - otherwise we are doomed.

And secondly, I can't really agree that we can appreciate the good and can appreciate 'intellect', intelligence or creativity or greatness only because we are surrounded by inanity. The great, the beautiful, the magnificent will always be that - whether we see it in nature or in people or in the universe. I didn't need to go into a mall to understand that I loved forests and water bodies and mountains...

And to take another route: I can't really say that poverty, for instance, is a 'good' thing because it helps us 'understand' what it means to have meals and clean water, bathing water, and shelter...

So no, I do not think that 'they' are 'all needed'. Absolutely not.